I’d just keep trying to learn and budget for breaking some carbide and chewing through aluminum chips.
Find the YT video of Jason @ Tormach running the Shear Hogs through their paces and adapt that to whatever carbide you are running. I think that’s the best way to learn feeds and speeds is to just turn round stock into chips since you will setup a spiral continuous cut starting on the outside until you finish to the center. Setup a conservative DOC/WOC and play with feed rate and RPM to see where the 440 will cut without bogging or if you can even attempt what you think you are attempting and go more aggressively until it bogs and be ready with the feed hold.
Search on my username and relevant stuff regarding feeds and speeds as it applies to a 440.
ProvenCut may be good recipes if you have zero knowledge of F&S (you are shown a known good fishing hole/pond but can you then learn how to fish in all situations from that?). I didn’t subscribe to i but I did ask someone for a couple examples when I was desperately trying to make an OG xsTech cut aluminum (it can but you need the patience of a saint and may have hours of cycle time).
There is free training here (https://www.americascuttingedge.org/) and the curriculum writer is a PhD whose perspective is that you want to model the cutting process in software to find resonant frequency to avoid chatter and maximize feed rate (productivity).
I paid for and then provided the 440 specs to the author to get him to model the 440 (Millalyzer) to mimic this approach. He takes a while to get back to you since it’s not his primary gig (also an academic) but was willing to import models for any other Tormach once you pay for it. Since you have a 440, it’s already in there.
I have licenses for Millalyzer, GWizard, and FSWizard. I used GWizard the least.
You are talking about $200-300 investment for Millalyzer and FSWizard.
Buy them both and learn on them. FSWizard is easier and quicker to get numbers quickly from.
The more you want to push a 440 aggressively, the more you are going to have to be there watching it VERY carefully and be ready to feed hold. I’ve pushed it probably way harder than intended and got it to cut aggressively but it would not cut consistently with those feeds/speeds. The HP/Torque curves, I would use 50% of spec for reliable cuts or to start. I got the point of headscratching when pushing it that I actually tested the RPMS using a tach to understand why recipes didn’t necessarily work. The issue I found was I could push it for maybe 30 seconds at a full load situation and then under more load, it would bog and if you didn’t feedhold and reduce rates…you WILL crash and break carbide. I broke a few due to bad F&S and probably more to not taking care to position. I chalk all of that up plus the software costs to learning as opposed to having gone to community college / trade school for this. Same dealio with me learning TIG (and other) welding myself.
Best thing to do is a structured school/class. You will probably make mistakes then, maybe less due to supervision but it will be structured learning + some mistakes, maybe less than learning on your own.